Tell the Women We're Going is a short story written by American author Raymond Carver. Details of Tell the Women We're Going Original Title Tell the Women We're Going. Virus and adware free. Previously, our system checked the all ebook's files for viruses. They're Not Your Husband; I Could See the Smallest Things; Home. Raymond Carver was born in Clatskanie, Oregon, in 1938. His first collection of stories, Will You Please Be Quiet, Please (a National Book Award nominee in 1977), was followed by What We Talk About When We Talk About Love, Cathedral (nominated for the Pulitzer Prize in 1984), and Where Im Calling From in 1988, when he was inducted into the American Academy of Arts and Letters.
The bibliography of Raymond Carver consists of 72 short stories, 306 poems, a novel fragment, a one-act play, a screenplay co-written with Tess Gallagher, and 32 pieces of non-fiction (essays, a meditation, introductions, and book reviews). In 2009 the 17 stories collected in What We Talk About When We Talk About Love were published in their manuscript form, prior to Gordon Lish's extensive editing, under the title Beginners.[1]
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- 4Poetry
- 5Non Fiction
Complete works[edit]
Raymond Carver's complete published works are collected in the following volumes:
- Collected Stories (Library of America, 2009) - includes the complete fiction (72 short stories, 1 novel fragment, 17 manuscript versions)1
- All of Us (Vintage, 2000) - includes the complete poetry (306 poems)
- Call If You Need Me: The Uncollected Fiction and Other Prose (Vintage, 2001) - includes the complete non-fiction (5 essays, 1 meditation, 8 comments on work, 6 introductions, 12 book reviews)2
- 1The book also includes 4 essays
- 2The book also includes 11 works of fiction
Two texts which are not included in any of the collections above were published separately:
- Dostoevsky (Capra, 1985) - screenplay (co-written with Tess Gallagher)
- Carnations (Engdahl Typography, 1992) - a one-act play.
Books[edit]
Title | Publisher | Contents | Notes |
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Near Klamath | Sacramento: English Club of Sacramento State College (1968) | ||
Winter Insomnia | Santa Cruz: Kayak (1970) | ||
At Night the Salmon Move | Santa Barbara: Capra (1976) | ||
Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? | New York: McGraw-Hill (1976) | 22 short stories | |
Furious Seasons and Other Stories | Santa Barbara: Capra (1977) | 8 short stories | |
What We Talk About When We Talk About Love | New York: Knopf (1981) | 17 short stories | |
Fires: Essays, Poems, Stories | Santa Barbara: Capra (1983); New York: Vintage (1984); New York: Vintage Contemporaries (1989) | 2 essays, 50 poems, 7 short stories | |
Cathedral | New York: Knopf (1983); London: Collins (1984) | 12 short stories | |
Dostoevsky | Santa Barbara: Capra (1985) | A Screenplay | Written with Tess Gallagher |
Where Water Comes Together with Other Water | New York: Random House (1985) | 80 poems | |
Ultramarine | New York: Random House (1986) | 84 poems | |
Where I'm Calling From: New and Selected Stories | New York: Atlantic Monthly (1988); Franklin Center, PA: Franklin Library (1988) | 37 short stories | |
A New Path to the Waterfall | New York: Atlantic Monthly (1989) | 73 poems | |
No Heroics, Please: Uncollected Writings | London: Collins Harvill (1991); New York: Vintage Contemporaries (1992) | stories, 19 poems and book reviews | |
Short Cuts: Selected Stories | New York: Vintage (1993) | 9 short stories, 1 poem | Released to accompany Short Cuts film (1993) |
All of Us: The Collected Poems | New York: Vintage (2000) | 306 poems | |
Call If You Need Me: The Uncollected Fiction and Other Prose | New York: Vintage (2001) | 10 stories, 1 novel fragment, 32 pieces of nonfiction | |
Collected Stories | New York: Library of America (2009) | 90 stories, 4 essays, 1 novel fragment |
British editions[edit]
Title | Publisher | Contents | Notes |
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The Stories of Raymond Carver | London: Picador (1985) | 51 stories | Complete contents of Will You Please Be Quiet, Please?, What We Talk About When We Talk About Love, and Cathedral |
In a Marine Light: Selected Poems | London: Collins Harvill, (1987) | ||
Elephant and Other Stories | London: Collins Harvill (1988) | 7 short stories | Includes the 7 new stories collected in Where I'm Calling From |
Beginners | London: Chatto Bodley Head & Cape (2009) | 17 stories | Manuscript version of stories included in What We Talk About When We Talk About Love |
Chapbooks and Limited Editions[edit]
Title | Publisher | Contents |
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Put Yourself in My Shoes | Santa Barbara: Capra (1974) | 1 short story |
The Pheasant | Worcester, MA: Metacom (1982) | 1 short story |
Two Poems | Salisbury, MD: Scarab (1982) | 2 poems |
If It Please You | Northridge, CA: Lord John (1984) | 1 short story |
My Father's Life | Derry, NH: Babcock & Koontz (1986) | Biographical essay |
Two Poems | Concord, NH: Ewert (1986) | 2 poems |
Those Days: Early Writings by Raymond Carver | Elmwood, CT: Raven (1987) | 11 poems, 1 short story |
Short stories[edit]
Title | Originally published in | Collected in: | Notes |
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'Fat' | Harper's Bazaar, September 1971 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Neighbors' | Esquire, June 1971 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Idea' | Northwest Review, 1971-72 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'They're Not Your Husband' | Chicago Review, 1973 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Are You a Doctor?' | Fiction, 1973 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Father' | Toyon, 1961 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Nobody Said Anything' | Seneca Review, 1970 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Sixty Acres' | Discourse, 1969 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'What's in Alaska?' | Iowa Review, 1972 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Night School' | North American Review, 1971 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Collectors' | Esquire, August 1975 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'What Do You Do in San Francisco?' | Colorado State Review, 1967 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Student's Wife' | Carolina Quarterly, 1964 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Put Yourself in My Shoes' | Iowa Review, 1972 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Jerry and Molly and Sam' | Perspective, 1972 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Why, Honey?' | Sou'wester, 1972 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Ducks' | Carolina Quarterly, 1963 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'How About This?' | Western Humanities Review, 1970 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Bicycles, Muscles, Cigarets' | Kansas Quarterly, 1973 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'What Is It?' | Esquire, 1972 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Titled 'Are These Actual Miles?' in Where I'm Calling From (1988) |
'Signals' | December, 1970 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Will You Please Be Quiet, Please?' | December, 1966 | Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (1976); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Pastoral' | Western Humanities Review, Winter 1963 | Furious Seasons and Other Stories (1977); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Furious Seasons' | Selection, Winter 1960-1961 | Furious Seasons and Other Stories (1977); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Why Don't You Dance?' | Quarterly West, 1978 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Viewfinder' | Quarterly West, 1978 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Mr. Coffee and Mr. Fixit' | TriQuarterly, 1980 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Gazebo' | Missouri Review, 1980 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'I Could See the Smallest Things' | Missouri Review, 1980 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Sacks' | Perspective, 1974 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'The Bath' | Columbia, 1981 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). Republished as 'A Small, Good Thing' in rewritten and expanded form in Cathedral. |
'Tell the Women We're Going' | Sou'wester, 1971 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'After the Denim' | New England Review, 1981 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'So Much Water So Close to Home' | Spectrum, 1975 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'The Third Thing That Killed My Father' | Discourse, 1967 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'A Serious Talk' | Playgirl, 1980 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'The Calm' | Iowa Review, 1979 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Popular Mechanics' | Playgirl, March 1978 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Titled 'Little Things' in Where I'm Calling From (1988); manuscript version titled 'Mine' appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'Everything Stuck to Him' | Chariton Review, Fall 1975 (as 'Distance') | Furious Seasons and Other Stories (1977); Fires (1983); What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Titled 'Distance' in Where I'm Calling From (1988) Manuscript version titled 'Distance' appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'What We Talk About When We Talk About Love' | Antaeus, 1981 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'One More Thing' | North American Review, 1979 | What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | Manuscript version appears in Beginners (2009) and Collected Stories (2009). |
'The Lie' | Sou'wester, 1971 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Cabin' | Western Humanities Review, 1963 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Harry's Death' | Eureka Review, 1975-76 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Pheasant' | Occident, 1973 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Feathers' | The Atlantic Monthly, September 1982 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Chef's House' | The New Yorker, November 30, 1981 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Preservation' | Grand Street, 1983 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Compartment' | Granta, June 1983 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'A Small, Good Thing' | Columbia, 1981 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | Originally published as 'The Bath' in What We Talk About When We Talk About Love in a shorter form. |
'Vitamins' | Granta, March 1981 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Careful' | The Paris Review, 1983 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Where I'm Calling From' | The New Yorker, March 15, 1982 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Train' | Antaeus, 1983 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Fever' | North American Review, 1983 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Bridle' | The New Yorker, July 19, 1982 | Cathedral (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Cathedral' | The Atlantic Monthly, September 1981 | Cathedral (1983); Where I'm Calling From (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Boxes' | The New Yorker, February 24, 1986 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Whoever Was Using This Bed' | The New Yorker, April 28, 1986 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Intimacy' | Esquire, August 1986 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Menudo' | Granta, 1987 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Elephant' | The New Yorker, June 9, 1986 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Blackbird Pie' | The New Yorker, July 7, 1986 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Errand' | The New Yorker, June 1, 1987 | Where I'm Calling From (1988); Elephant and Other Stories (1988); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Hair' | Toyon, 1963 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'The Aficionados' | Toyon, 1963 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Poseidon and Company' | Toyon, 1963 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Bright Red Apples' | Gato Magazine, 1967 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Kindling' | Esquire, July 1999 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'What Would You Like to See?' | The Guardian, June 24, 2000 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Dreams' | Esquire, August 2000 | 'Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Vandals' | Esquire, October 1999 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Call If You Need Me' | Granta, 1999 | Call If You Need Me (2000); Collected Stories (2009) |
Poetry[edit]
Carver's 306 poems are collected in All Of Us (1996) after previously appearing in the collections: Near Klamath (1968), Winter Insomnia (1970), At Night The Salmon Move (1976), Fires (1983), Where Water Comes Together With Other Water (1985),This Water (1985), Ultramarine (1986), Early For The Dance (1986), Those Days: Early Writings By Raymond Carver: Eleven Poems And A Story (1987), In A Marine Light: Selected Poems (1987), A New Path To The Waterfall (1989), and No Heroics, Please (1991).
Notable poems include 'Photograph of My Father in His Twenty-Second Year', which grew out of the essay 'My Father's Life', and 'Gravy', which was published in The New Yorker in August 1988 following Carver's death. The poems 'Late Fragment' and 'Gravy' are both inscribed on his tombstone.
The Poems[edit]
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Non Fiction[edit]
Essays[edit]
Title | Originally published in | Collected in: | Notes |
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'My Father's Life' | Esquire, September 1984 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'On Writing' | The New York Times Book Review, 15 February 1981 (as 'A Storyteller's Shoptalk') | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'Fires' | Antaeus, Autumn 1982 | Fires (1983); Collected Stories (2009) | Appears in anthology In Praise of What Persists (1983) |
'On Where I'm Calling From' | Where I'm Calling From (1988) (as 'A Special Message for the First Edition') | No Heroics, Please (1991); Call If You Need Me (2001); Collected Stories (2009) | |
'John Gardner: The Writer as Teacher' | Georgia Review, Summer 1983 (as 'John Gardner: Writer and Teacher') | Call If You Need Me (2001) | Reprinted as foreword to Gardner's On Becoming a Novelist (1983) |
'Friendship' | Granta, Autumn 1988 | Call If You Need Me (2001) | |
'Meditation on a Line from Saint Teresa' | Commencement, 15 May 1988 untitled statement | Call If You Need Me (2001) |
Occasions[edit]
Title | Published in: | Collected in: |
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On 'Neighbors' | Cutting Edges: Young American Fiction for the '70s, ed. Jack Hicks (New York: Holt, Rinehart and Winston, 1973) | Call If You Need Me |
On 'Drinking While Driving' | New Voices in American Poetry, ed. David Allan Evans (Cambridge, Massachusetts: Winthrop Publishers, 1973) | Call If You Need Me |
On Rewriting | Afterward to Fires: Essays, Poems, Stories, (Santa Barbara, California: Capra Press, 1983) | Call If You Need Me |
On the Dosotevsky Screenplay | Introduction to Dostoevsky: A Screenplay (Santa Barbara, California: Capra Press, 1985) | Call If You Need Me |
On 'Bobber' and Other Poems | The Generation of 2000: Contemporary American Poets ed. William Heyen (Princeton, New Jersey: Ontario Review Press, 1984) | Call If You Need Me |
On 'For Tess' | Literary Cavalcade 39, no. 7 (Scholastic, Inc. New York, April 1987) | Call If You Need Me |
On 'Errand' | The Best American Short Stories 1988 (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1988) | Call If You Need Me |
On Where I'm Calling From | Foreword to Where I'm Calling From (New York: Atlantic Monthly, 1988); | Call If You Need Me |
Introductions[edit]
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Title | Introduction to: | Collected in: |
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Steering by the Stars | Syracuse Poems and Stories 1980 Syracuse University, 1980 | Call If You Need Me |
All My Relations | Call If You Need Me | |
The Unknown Chekhov | Call If You Need Me | |
Fiction of Occurrence and Consequence (with Tom Jenks) | Call If You Need Me | |
On Contemporary Fiction | Call If You Need Me | |
On Longer Stories | Call If You Need Me |
Book Reviews[edit]
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Title | Books reviewed | Published in: | Collected in: |
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Big Fish, Mythical Fish | My Moby Dick by William Humphrey | Chicago Tribune Book World, 29 October 1978 | Call If You Need Me |
Barthelme's Inhuman Comedies | Great Days by Donald Barthelme | Chicago Tribune Book World, 28 January 1978 | Call If You Need Me |
Rousing Tales | Call If You Need Me | ||
Bluebeard Mornings, Storm Warnings | Call If You Need Me | ||
A Gifted Novelist at the Top of His Game | Call If You Need Me | ||
Fiction That Throws Light on Blackness | Call If You Need Me | ||
Brautigan Serves Werewolf Berries and Cat Cantaloupe | Call If You Need Me | ||
McGuane Goes After Big Game | Call If You Need Me | ||
Richard Ford's Stark Vision of Loss, Healing | Call If You Need Me | ||
A Retired Acrobat Falls under the Spell of a Teenage Girl | Call If You Need Me | ||
'Fame Is No Good, Take It from Me' | Call If You Need Me | ||
Coming of Age, Going to Pieces | Call If You Need Me |
Other works[edit]
- At College
Carver's first publication was in the Chico State student newspaper, The Wildcat, on October 31, 1958. His contribution was a letter to the editor entitled 'Where Is Intellect?', which complained about the apathy of students on campus. In 1962, Carver wrote an absurdist one-act play entitled Carnations, which was staged on his college's campus on May 11 and received mostly negative feedback. The play was published in 1992 by Engdahl Typography.[citation needed]
A fragment of Carver's unfinished novel The Augustine Notebooks was published in Iowa Review (Summer 1979), and later collected in Call If You Need Me (2000) and Collected Stories (2009). Additionally, Carver had accepted an advance on an unwritten novel from McGraw-Hill and planned to write a novel he imagined as 'an African Queen sort of thing' set in German East Africa after World War I.[2] Carver later admitted he stopped working on the novel after two weeks, and it appears that nothing of it exists beyond the published fragment.[citation needed]
In 1982, Carver was approached by director Michael Cimino with the idea of reworking a screenplay on the life of Fyodor Dostoevsky. Carver asked Tess Gallagher to assist him in the project. The movie was never produced but the screenplay, entitled Dostoevsky, was published by Capra (Santa Barbara, 1985).[citation needed]
Editing[edit]
Carver served as the founding editor of the Chico State literary magazine Selection in 1960 and the UC Santa Cruz journal Quarry (later Quarry West) in 1971. He also edited the Spring 1963 issue of Toyon at Humboldt State. Carver also selected the contents for the book Syracuse Poems and Stories 1980 (Syracuse, N.Y.: Department of English, Syracuse University, 1980). He also selected, along with Shannon Ravenel, the stories included in The Best American Short Stories 1986 (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1986) and edited American Short Story Masterpieces (New York: Delacorte Press, 1987) with Tom Jenks.
References[edit]
- General
- Carol Sklenicka, Raymond Carver: A Writer's Life, New York: Simon & Schuster, 2009, pp. 495–500.
- ^Carver, Raymond. Collected Stories, New York: Library of America, 2009.
- ^Interview of Raymond Carver in Times Standard of Eureka California, July 24, 1977.
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They're Not Your Husband. The chief practitioner of this aesthetic was Raymond Carver. – Free books – CliffsNotes.
Continue reading. Ray Carver's collection 'Where I'm Calling From' After reading more than a dozen of Ray Carver’s short stories from his collection Where I'm Calling From, I have to ask the question, 'Where was Carver calling from?' On the surface, his stories seem very simple. They are about people with average jobs such as hotel managers, waitresses, salesmen, and secretaries, who live unsophisticated, mediocre lives.
Below the surface, however, there is always more to be discovered if the reader is willing to put forth a little bit of effort. Obviously put a lot of thought into his stories.
The least that we, as readers, can do is scratch the surface a little, or better yet, dig deep into his words to see what he is really trying to say to us. This is a task that is easier said than done.
One story that does not seem quite as difficult as some others to interpret is 'They’re Not Your Husband.' Carver actually tells us quite a bit about and Doreen if, once again, we are willing to look for the hidden clues. Earl is a salesman who is currently unemployed. He is looking for work, and he does find a sales job, but not a paying one. When he overhears two of his wife’s customers commenting on her 'fat ass' (Magee), and saying, 'Some jokers like their quim fat' (Carver 45), Earl realizes who his next sales pitch will be aimed.
Not wanting to be considered a joker, he decides to 'sell' Doreen on the idea of (Magee). Using his sales tactics, Earl cautiously presents his 'product' to Doreen. At first she is surprised because he has never brought up her weight before, but Earl is able to convince her that she should go on a diet without upsetting her. '‘All right,’ she said. For a few days I’ll give it a try.
You’ve convinced me'’ (Carver 47). After hearing this, Earl replies, 'I’m a closer' (Carver 47).
Earl feels that he has successfully closed the deal but if we keep digging, we see something more. John Magee, in his article on 'They’re Not Your Husband' for The Explicator, says, 'Drop the c from 'closer’and 'loser’ emerges, which is what Earl is' (2). Earl is a loser because he thinks that the way his wife looks says something about him. He hopes that if he can successfully help Doreen begin to look better, he may start to feel better about himself. MLA Citation: 'Ray Carver's collection Where I'm Calling From.'
Title Length Color Rating - Introduction; Prior to starting the career project there were several occupations that caught my interest, being a firefighter, a marine biologist, and a dentist. However looking at the economy I realize that I need to obtain a sustainable job that will be on the rise, and of the three I narrowed it down to one field, dentistry. Inspired by my dentist, Nicholas Chiotelis, I saw his line of work and his passion for the career it became apparent that it was my calling as well. History and Development: Dentistry has always been a part of history, a founding occupation. tags: Career Goals:: 18 Works Cited 2292 words (6.5 pages) Term Papers - Where I'm Calling From Sickness is a part of life, and sometimes a gateway to death.
There are many different kinds of sickness- some that strike hard and fast, and others that are slow, painful, and consuming. Alcoholism is a sickness of the latter variety.
It slowly takes over a victim's life, ripping away loved ones while ravaging the victim's body from head to toe- beginning with the mind. The healing process is all that can rescue one from sickness- it is the only way to stray from its path and avoid death. tags: Where I'm Calling From Essays:: 1 Works Cited 1601 words (4.6 pages) Powerful Essays - The short story, 'A Small, Good Thing' by Raymond Carver tells of two American parents dealing with their son's hospitalization and death as the result of a hit-and-run car accident. The insensitive actions of their local baker add to their anger and confusion, yet by the end of the story, leave them with a sense of optimism and strength. With such content, Carver runs the risk of coming across as sentimental; however, this is not the case, and the anguish of the parents and their shock at the situation is expressed with dignity and understatement. tags: Raymond Carver:: 1 Works Cited 1954 words (5.6 pages) Strong Essays - The Power of Carver's Little Things To a reader unfamiliar with his work, Raymond Carver's short story, 'Little Things' may seem devoid of all literary devices owning to good writing.
Fortunately, these people are mistaken. With his minimalistic style, it is what Carver doesn't write that makes his work so effective. Most of Carver's short stories describe situations that many people could find themselves in and that is why his work is so appealing to readers.
They are not restricted to harsh explicative details or over-dramatized language, but are allowed to create their own rationale for the actions of the characters and the consequent results. tags: Carver Little Things Essays Papers:: 3 Works Cited 824 words (2.4 pages) Better Essays - Neighbors 'Neighbors is a short story written by Raymond Carver in 1988. It is from the collection of short stories 'Short cuts'. The short story is in brief about the married couple Bill and Arlene Miller, who lives opposite the married couple Harriet and Jim stone.
Bill and Arlene constantly see themselves in the light of the Stones' happy life. Bill is a bookkeeper and Arlene is a secretary, while Jim is a salesman for a machine-parts firm.
In the story the Stones are going on a business trip combined with a family trip. tags: Raymond Carver 1976 words (5.6 pages) Powerful Essays - The narrator, or storyteller, of Raymond Carver's short story 'Cathedral' opens by saying, 'This blind man, an old friend of my wife's, he was on his way to spend the night.' The narrator goes on to explain that after the blind man's wife died while visiting her relatives in nearby Connecticut, he had called the narrator's wife from his in-laws' and made arrangements to visit. The narrator admits he is not excited about the visit. 'He was no one I knew.
And his being blind bothered me. My idea of blindness came from the movies.
tags: Raymond Carver 1903 words (5.4 pages) Strong Essays - Raymond Carver's A Small Good Thing Raymond Carver's 'A Small Good Thing,' a short story that has to do with the lack of interaction and empathy between the baker, Ann and Howard, the finale where the baker is startled to find out about the child's death, asks for mercy and presents them warm cinnamon rolls telling them that 'Eating is a small, good thing in a time like this' and they are comforted, reveals particular significance of the title in terms of the story's theme. Also, Raymond Carver's 'Cathedral,' a story that starts with an ignorant and rude narrator whose wife has called a blind friend to spend the night at their home and according to Carver, 'A blind man in my house was not. tags: Comparative Literature Carver Small Good Essays:: 1 Works Cited 854 words (2.4 pages) Better Essays - An Unattainable Daydream In a world full of cheaters, liars, and con artists, the last person anyone should lie to is themselves.
However, that is exactly what took place in Raymond Carver's, 'Neighbors.' In this story, Bill and Arlene Miller were left with the opportunity to take care of Jim and Harriet Stone's apartment while they were away visiting family for ten days. The Millers had grown weary of their lives and often felt jealous of their neighbors, who they felt lived a happier and more exciting life than they. tags: Raymond Carver 1049 words (3 pages) Strong Essays - Cathedral: A Lesson for the Ages Raymond Carver’s short story, “Cathedral,” portrays a story in which many in today’s society can relate. We are introduced from the first sentence of the story to a man that seems to be perturbed and agitated. As readers, we are initially unsure to the reasoning’s behind the man’s discomfort.
The man, who seems to be a direct portrayal of Raymond Carver himself, shows his ignorance by stereotyping a blind man by the name of Robert, who has come to stay with he and his wife. tags: Raymond Carver:: 1 Works Cited 1102 words (3.1 pages) Strong Essays - In Raymond Carver’s “Neighbors” the speaker’s attention seems to be more directed on the Bill and Arlene Miller. The Millers are a married couple who were once a happy couple but as the years went along they felt grew apart. It seems as though they are too busy comparing their lives to the Harriet and Jim Stone, which are their neighbors, that they don’t have time to fix their marriage. The Stones do what married people should do and that’s “go out for dinner, or entertaining at home, or traveling about the country somewhere(70).” The Millers are given the responsibility of looking after the Stones apartment for ten days, while they are on a pleasure trip.
tags: Raymond Carver:: 1 Works Cited 470 words (1.3 pages) Good Essays. Another intriguing thought that Magee brings up is that the name 'Earl Ober' scrambled is 'real bore' (2). I have to agree with this description, and also add that 'Ober' sounds an awful lot like 'ogre.' The concept of Earl being a loser shows up again when Doreen tells him that her friends at work think that she is losing too much weight. Now, I think Doreen had a hidden agenda in telling Earl this.
Did her friends really think she was getting too thin? I sincerely doubt it. If she had a behind big enough to be made fun of, I do not think losing nine and a half pounds would do a whole lot to change her overall appearance. What was Doreen's motive for making this up? Well, let’s take a look at Earl’s response: 'What is wrong with losing? Don’t you pay any attention to them. Tell them to mind their own business.
They’re not your husband. You don’t have to live with them' (Carver 49). It’s as if by saying that there is nothing wrong with losing, Earl is admitting to being a loser. If that was Doreen’s goal I do believe she succeeded. One common thread in Ray Carver’s stories that sometimes makes them difficult to understand is the way he constructs his endings.
Anatole Broyard criticizes Carver’s endings in a New York Times review for what he calls 'the most flagrant and common imposition in current fiction, to end a story with a sententious ambiguity that leaves the reader holding the bag' (3). I have to admit that I felt this way when I read my first few Carver stories. They have, however, grown on me. I like being able to come up with my own versions of the endings. I tend to agree with Adam Mars-Jones in his response to the previous quote from Broyard. He says, 'Perhaps there is a reason for this.
Endings and titles are bound to be a problem for a writer like Carver, since readers and reviewers so habitually use them as keys to interpret everything else in a story. So he must make his endings enigmatic and even mildly surrealist, and his titles for the most part oblique' (3-4). The end of 'They’re Not Your Husband' is ironic because Doreen’s friend asks Doreen who the joker at the counter is, meaning Earl.
This whole story has been about how Earl wants to make sure that he is not thought of as a joker, yet in the end, that is exactly how he is seen. Even though Doreen has slimmed down, Earl is still the same old loser that he always was. Doreen’s reply, 'He’s a salesman. He’s my husband' (Carver 52) shows that she knows that she has been swindled.
'Doreen’s name scrambled is 'redone’' (Magee 2). Her body may have changed slightly, but her attitude about Earl is what makes Doreen a new woman.
What will she do now? Will she tell Earl to get lost, or will she stay with him and try to make the best of the situation? Tom Luce has an interesting theory about the ending.
He believes that the unfinished sundae that Doreen gives Earl symbolizes a relationship that is not complete. Also, he interprets the act of Doreen’s totaling up Earl’s check to mean that she is sending him out of her life (6).
I am not sure that I would have come to those conclusions on my own, but that is the beauty of Ray Carver’s writing; every reader is free to interpret it exactly the way that they want to. 'Ray writes so well, so efficiently and clearly, so easily, that it makes others think to themselves, I can do this. But when we try, we simply can’t' (Luce 3). Ray Carver is definitely a one-of-a-kind writer. I still do not know exactly where he was calling from and I do not think that I, or anyone else, for that matter, am supposed to know. One thing I do know is that more of Carver’s stories will find their way into my hands, and I will attempt to interpret the subtle meanings buried in them to unearth what Carver tried so hard to bury. After all, it is actually kind of fun to try to find this calling place of his, wherever it may be.
Works Cited Broyard, Anatole. Contemporary Authors – Carver, Raymond. Available: Carver, Raymond. 'They’re Not Your Husband.' Where I’m Calling From.
New York: Random House, Inc., 1989. 'Journals From Behind the Scenes' Lkd. Etc., etc., etc., at The Raymond Carver Website.
Available: John. 'Carver’s’They’re Not Your Husband.' ’ The Explicator.
Available: Mars-Jones, Adam. Contemporary Authors – Carver, Raymond. Available: http://galenet.gale.com.
From the beginning of mankind there has been a lot of different ideals of gender roles. Years ago it was only the men who went to work and they were considered as the breadwinner of the family.
Usually women were not working. They stayed at home cleaning, cooking, bringing the kids to school and all the other practical things that had to be done while their men went to work, making sure they had food on the table every night.
Women were not acknowledged the same way as men, they did not go to work and even if they tried to get a job they would not get one only because of the way men used to look at women, not being equal to them. Women employment was not something society was interested in. Since back then a lot has changed. Women are acknowledged as equal to men, the employment of women is not rare in modern American society and women are now approved to be as good as men. In Raymond Carvers novel ‘THEY’RE NOT YOUR HUSBAND’ from 1973 the gender roles has been completely twisted around compared to the way it used to be in the years before the novel (1973). Back then it was rare that the man stayed at home while woman was having a job.
In the novel Earl Ober is the one without a job and having an alcohol problem while on the other side his wife Doreen is working as a waitress. Through a third person limited narrator we follow the main character Earl through a tough time being between jobs. Earl has a wife called Doreen, she work nights at a 24-hour coffee shop. Earl has a drinking problem and one night when he was drinking he decided to go and see where she worked.
Doreen asked what he was doing and if the kids were okay. He seemed kind of pissed off with the question: ”What are you doing here”? ‘ ”You sure the kids are okay”?(ll.9-11) And he said ”They’re fine”. He is kind of ashamed that he is taking care of them while his wife is working. While he was sitting there eating two men dressed in suits walked in and took a seat next to Earl. The two men started talking about his wife and they were not all complements, no actually they were sitting and talking about Doreen’s ass ‘ Look at the ass on that, will you? I don’t believe it ‘‘ ‘I’ve seen better'‘’That’s what mean'(ll.21-23) Earl when rushed out of the coffee shop to go home.
It had never bothered him that Doreen had a few pounds too much on her body but that night when he went to bed he thought about what the well dressed and working men (as Earl wanted to be) said about Doreen he was suddenly humiliated. ”The humiliation started in his face, the forehead and the cheeks, and worked down into his shoulders and on into his stomach and legs” (ll.49-51).
This is the point of no return, he felt humiliated because of the suited men who thought his wife was too fat. In the morning Earl told Doreen to look at herself in the mirror and he when told her that he thought she should consider going on a diet. Doreen was very surprised because he never said anything before.
Then they agreed that she could stand losing a few pounds. Doreen started a no eating diet but in the afternoon as Earl came home from an interview she was eating eggs and bacon, Earl was pissed of and yelled at her but they agreed that she would give it another try. She went on and over a couple of weeks she had lost nine and a half pound and her clothes were getting loose. At her jobs people were telling her that she was getting too pale and she should stop loosing weight but Earl told her to keep on going.
After a while Doreen changed sleeping a lot more and you must assume that she, like all other people, was in a bad mood because she did not eat. ”She spent more time in bed now. She went back to bed after the children had left for school” (ll. One night he went for a couple of drinks and afterwards he went to the coffee shop.
They're Not Your Husband Summary
He was very proud of Doreen and he asked the other waitress about her, acting like he did not know her. Earl was perhaps a little drunk; he was acting like a fool being very inappropriate.
He talked to another customer about Doreen but he could not get anyone to agree with him that she looked better than before. At last the other waitress asked Doreen who that fool was and she replied like nothing had ever changed ”He’s my husband” (l. 245) The setting is very important for the understanding of the novel while the author Raymond Carver stories mainly take place in his native Pacific Northwest region; they are peopled with the type of lower-middle-class characters the author was familiar with while he was growing up.
The men often had all the income of the family while the women was taking care of all the practical things at home. A man who could not take care of his family was a failure, which Earl might have felt like because Doreen had the income of the family. Source: Essay UK - Not what you're looking for? Search our thousands of essays. If this essay isn't quite what you're looking for, why not order your own custom English Literature essay, dissertation or piece of coursework that answers your exact question? There are UK writers just like me on hand, waiting to help you.
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